Money Isn’t the Problem – Your Brain Might Be!

Money Isn’t the Problem – Your Brain Might Be!

Oct 1, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Estate Planning, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Relationships, Saving Money, Self Development

Feeling Stuck with Money? You’re Not Alone

Ever feel like no matter how hard you work, money keeps slipping through your fingers?

You track your spending, download another budgeting app, maybe even try a no-spend challenge (ugh)…
But nothing sticks. You’re still stressed, still overspending, and still wondering why money feels so hard.

Here’s a radical idea that might blow your mind:

Your financial struggle isn’t just about money. It’s about your mindset.

If you’ve ever told yourself:

  • “I’m just not good with money.”

     

  • “I’ll never get ahead.”

     

  • “I’m terrible with numbers.”

     

  • “There’s never enough to go around.”

…then guess what? You’re not bad with money.
 You’re just running an outdated mental program and it’s time to upgrade your system.

? Your Mindset Is the Missing Link in Money Management

Let’s get one thing straight: You weren’t born with your current money habits.

They were learned, shaped, and reinforced over years often by:

  • What you saw growing up
  • What society tells you about money
  • Your past financial “mistakes”
  • Deep, often unconscious beliefs about what’s possible for you

Most of us were never taught how to actually think about money in a healthy, empowering way.

Instead, we internalise things like:

  • “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
  • “Rich people are greedy.”
  • “You have to work hard to make money.”

These beliefs shape our thoughts.
Our thoughts drive our behaviours.
Our behaviours determine our results.

?  “Change your thoughts, and you change your world.” – Norman Vincent Peale

? Meet the RAS: The Tiny Brain Filter That Shapes Your Reality

One of the most powerful (yet overlooked) players in your financial journey is your Reticular Activating System (RAS).

It’s a tiny bundle of nerves in your brainstem that acts like a filter, allowing in information that matches your beliefs and blocking out everything else.

In short:

  • If you believe money is hard to come by, your RAS will filter out opportunities and highlight obstacles.
  • If you believe you’ll never get ahead, your RAS will literally make it harder to see paths to progress.

It’s not woo-woo. It’s neuroscience. ?⚡

But here’s the good news: You can train your RAS to focus on abundance, opportunity, and growth. That’s the work we do in my Master Your Money program – and it works.

Create a monthly payment plan that includes money for fun and savings.

? 5 Limiting Beliefs That Keep You Financially Stuck

Let’s get real for a moment. Most people are walking around with a money mindset full of invisible roadblocks.

Here are 5 common ones that might be running in the background of your brain:

  1. “I’m just not good with money.”
     → Translation: I’ve made mistakes, and now I believe they define me.

     

  2. “There’s never enough.”
     → Leads to hoarding, fear-based spending, or total avoidance.

     

  3. “I always mess it up.”
     → Creates shame, procrastination, and financial self-sabotage.

     

  4. “If I make more, I’ll lose it anyway.”
     → Keeps you stuck at your current income level (or worse).

     

  5. “Wanting wealth is greedy or selfish.”
     → Prevents you from receiving more, even when you’ve earned it.

Sound familiar?

The first step to changing your results is changing these beliefs. But how? Let’s walk through a simple reframe technique that works fast.

? Flip the Script: How to Rewire a Limiting Money Belief

Step 1: Identify the belief

Example: “I’ll never be debt-free.”

Step 2: Ask yourself, “Where did I learn this?”

Maybe from watching your parents struggle, or after repeated financial setbacks.

Step 3: Write the empowering opposite

✅ “I am taking steps every day toward financial freedom.”
✅ “My past doesn’t define my financial future.”
✅ “I am capable, committed, and in control.”

Now, speak that new belief out loud every morning.
Yes – out loud. You’re rewiring your brain. It needs to hear the new code.

?‍♀️ Practice Mindful Money: A Daily 5-Minute Ritual

You don’t need hours of meditation or 12-tab spreadsheets to take control of your finances.
You just need five intentional minutes a day.

Here’s a powerful money mindfulness ritual to try:

? Each morning or evening:

  1. Check in with your emotions around money.
    • Am I feeling anxious? Grateful? Avoidant?
  2. Review your spending from the past 24 hours.
    • One win + one lesson.
  3. Name your money goal for the week.
    • Keep it small and actionable: “Track all spending” or “Bring lunch from home 3x.”
  4. Say your top 3 affirmations out loud.
    • Examples: “I am aligned with abundance.” “Money flows to me with ease.” “I am in control of my financial future.”

      Repeat for 30 days and watch how much more confident, clear, and calm you feel around money.

Create a monthly payment plan that includes money for fun and savings.

? Why This Work Matters More Than Spreadsheets

I’ve been in the financial industry since 1986.
I’ve seen people transform their finances not because they suddenly won the lotto or got a huge raise…
 …but because they shifted how they think about money.

They rewired their brains for:

  • Financial confidence
  • Resilience
  • Peace of mind
  • And yes – wealtH

And that’s why I created the Master Your Money program.

It’s not just another budgeting course. It’s a 30-day, mindset-first reset that helps you finally stop the cycle of stress, sabotage, and shame around money and start creating real momentum towards financial freedom.

? What Happens When You Rewire Your Money Mindset?

✨ You stop panic-spending and start making calm, intentional choices.
✨ You forgive your past mistakes and take empowered action today.
 ✨ You feel in control – even if your income hasn’t changed yet.
 ✨ You start attracting new opportunities, support, and even more money.

This is the magic of mindset.
 It works. It’s real. And it’s within your reach.

? Try This: Your 7-Day Money Mindset Challenge

Want to get a taste of what mindset work can do for you?

Here’s a simple challenge to try this week:

Day 1: Write your 3 biggest money fears

Day 2: Flip each into an empowering belief

Day 3: Create a 5-minute money ritual

Day 4: Track one spending habit with curiosity (not judgment)

Day 5: Visualise your ideal financial future

Day 6: Celebrate one money win

Day 7: Journal what’s shifted emotionally, mentally, or financially

You’ll be amazed what starts to change in just one week.

? Ready to Go Deeper? Join Master Your Money!

If you’re tired of feeling:

  • Confused about where your money goes
  • Anxious every time a bill lands
  • Guilty when you spend (or don’t)
  • Stuck in a financial Groundhog Day…

Then you’re ready for a reset.
Not just in your bank account – but in your brain.

My Master Your Money 30-day program walks you step-by-step through:
 ✅ Rewiring limiting beliefs
 ✅ Creating daily habits that stick
 ✅ Building emotional clarity around money
 ✅ Using mindset tools like visualisation, affirmations, and gratitude
 ✅ Becoming the CEO of your financial life (finally)

No judgment. No jargon. Just powerful, practical transformation.

? Final Thought: It Was Never About the Money

It was always about:

  • The story you believed.
  • The patterns you repeated.
  • The mindset you inherited.

But here’s the best part:

You have the power to rewrite the story.

Let today be the day you stop blaming money and start mastering your mindset.

Because once your brain gets on board? Your bank account will follow.

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Mind Over Money: How to Rewrite Your Financial Story & Build a Breakthrough Mindset

Mind Over Money: How to Rewrite Your Financial Story & Build a Breakthrough Mindset

Sep 10, 2025 | Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt Payment, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Estate Planning, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Home Loan, Mindset, Mortgage, Net Worth, Relationships

Let’s start with the truth:

You can have the perfect budget, a great-paying job, even a savings plan, and still feel stuck financially.

Why? Because if your mindset doesn’t change, your money won’t either.

In this blog, we’re going to unpack:

  • The power of mindset in creating real financial change
  • How money stories are formed (and how to rewrite them)
  • Common mindset blocks that keep people stuck
  • Simple tools to build a breakthrough mindset
  • How this fits into your journey toward financial freedom

Let’s dive in!

? What Is a Money Mindset (and Why Should You Care)?

Your money mindset is your core belief system around money. It shapes how you:

  • Spend
  • Save
  • Earn
  • Invest
  • React in financial stress

It’s the voice in your head that says:

  • “I’m just not good with money.”
  • “Money always slips through my fingers.”
  • “I have to work hard to survive.”

Or, on the flip side:

  • “I’m in control of my finances.”
  • “I know how to make money work for me.”
  • “Wealth is available to me.”

The difference? Mindset.

This isn’t wishful thinking, this is neuroscience and behavioural psychology. What you believe impacts how you behave. And how you behave impacts your bank account.

? Where Do These Beliefs Come From?

Most of our money beliefs are formed before age 7.

You may have grown up hearing:

  • “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
  • “We can’t afford that.”
  • “Rich people are greedy.”

Without realising it, those phrases became part of your internal money script – even if they don’t serve you now.

Other money stories come from:

  • Your parents’ relationship with money
  • Cultural or community influences
  • Early financial trauma (like debt, bankruptcy, poverty)

Good news? You can rewrite the script.

? Common Money Mindset Blocks (And How They Show Up)

If you’ve ever thought:

  • “As soon as I get ahead, something always knocks me back.”
  • “I don’t deserve to be wealthy.”
  • “I feel anxious just opening my banking app,”

…you’re not alone.

Here are 5 of the most common mindset blocks we see:

1. Scarcity Thinking

The belief that there’s never enough (time, money, opportunities). This leads to fear-based decisions and self-sabotage.

2. Imposter Syndrome

Feeling like you’re not smart or “good enough” to manage money well. You might under-earn or avoid taking risks.

3. Fear of Success

It sounds weird, but many fear what will change if they actually become successful.

4. Guilt Around Wealth

Especially common if you grew up in struggle or were taught that money = greed.

5. Money Avoidance

This shows up as procrastination, not checking accounts, or avoiding financial conversations.

Getting Out of Debt Starts in Your Mind

✨ The Power of Rewriting Your Financial Story

Here’s the deal: your current money story isn’t your final chapter.

You can shift from:

  • “I’ll always be in debt” → “I’m learning how to manage and reduce my debt.”
  • “I’m terrible with money” → “I’m becoming more financially confident every day.”

Just like you wouldn’t expect physical results without working out, you can’t expect financial change without working on your mindset.

? Simple Tools to Strengthen Your Money Mindset

1. Awareness is Power

Start by journaling or reflecting on your early money memories. What did you hear, see, or feel growing up?

2. Affirmations That Stick

Affirmations are powerful when they’re practiced consistently. Try these:

  • “I am safe and in control of my finances.”
  • “Every dollar I spend and save has purpose.”
  • “I deserve financial abundance.”

3. Surround Yourself With Growth

Follow financial educators, podcasts, and communities that reinforce positive beliefs about money.

4. Set Micro-Goals

Progress builds confidence. Start with tiny, achievable wins – like tracking your expenses or saving $10/week.

5. Visualise the Outcome

Spend 2 minutes a day visualising what your financially free life looks like. Your brain responds powerfully to visualisation.

6. Join a Supportive Program

A structured environment with accountability and coaching helps speed up your mindset shift.

That’s exactly what we provide in the Financial Freedom Breakthrough Program, launching this September.

? The Role of Mindset in the Financial Freedom Diagram

Let’s circle back to the diagram from Financial Management 101.

If you’re stuck at the bottom (overwhelmed, struggling, surviving), it’s not just a numbers issue.

It’s a belief issue.

Mindset is the foundation that supports every other level:

  • Budgeting
  • Saving
  • Debt reduction
  • Credit health
  • Wealth building
  • Estate planning

With the right mindset, these tools feel doable. Without it, even the best strategy will collapse.

? Real Talk: You Are NOT Broken

Maybe you’ve made mistakes. Maybe you’ve felt stuck for years. Maybe you’re scared to even start.

That doesn’t make you broken – it makes you human.

Your past doesn’t define you. Your future is still yours to shape.

And the first step? Believing you can.

Working on your money mindset while paying off debt is so important.

? Ready to Rewrite Your Story?

Here’s how to begin:

  1. Download our Free Money Mindset Workbook (coming soon)
  2. Join the waitlist for the Financial Freedom Breakthrough Program
  3. Share this post with someone who needs to hear it today

    ? Final Thoughts

    Money mindset isn’t fluff, it’s the fuel behind every breakthrough.

    If you want a different result, you need a different belief.

    You’re not meant to just survive. You’re meant to thrive.

    Let’s start believing in that version of you, and take action to bring it to life.

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    Debt Freedom: 3 Simple Shifts That Accelerate Your Payoff Plan (Without Losing Your Mind!)

    Debt Freedom: 3 Simple Shifts That Accelerate Your Payoff Plan (Without Losing Your Mind!)

    Aug 27, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Payment, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Estate Planning, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Home Loan, Mindset, Mortgage, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money, Self Development, Side Hustle

    Let’s get honest for a second. Debt… it’s a heavy word, right? For many of us, just hearing it triggers:

    • A knot in the stomach.
    • A wave of shame or regret.
    • That overwhelming thought: “Will I ever get out of this?”

    If this sounds familiar, take a deep breath – you are not alone. Whether it’s credit cards, student loans, car payments, or that lingering medical bill, debt can feel like a mountain that just keeps growing. But here’s the truth most people won’t tell you:

    Debt freedom isn’t just about paying more toward your balances – it’s about shifting the way you think, act, and plan with your money.

    Today, I’m going to walk you through:

    • Why traditional debt payoff advice often backfires.
    • The three powerful mindset shifts that can accelerate your debt payoff (without sucking all the joy out of your life).
    • How your credit score, saving, and debt freedom are more connected than you think.
    • Simple steps you can take right now to start feeling empowered and in control.

    And yes, we’ll keep it light, fun, and inspiring, because you deserve to feel good about your money journey, even while tackling debt.

    ? The Problem with Traditional Debt Advice (Why It Doesn’t Work for Most People)

    Let’s start here. If you’ve ever Googled “how to pay off debt fast,” you’ve probably seen some version of this advice:

    • “Cut out all unnecessary spending.”
    • “Stop eating out.”
    • “Work a second (or third) job.”
    • “Sell everything you own.”

    And sure… some of these tips can help in extreme situations. But for most people, this kind of advice:

    • Feels impossible to stick with long-term.
    • Creates a cycle of guilt and burnout.
    • Ignores the emotional and psychological side of debt.

    Here’s the truth:

    Debt isn’t just a numbers problem, it’s a behavior and mindset problem, too. Yes, we need to talk about strategy, but if we skip the emotional side of debt, we’ll never create lasting results.

    Getting Out of Debt Starts in Your Mind

    ✨ Why Getting Out of Debt Starts in Your Mind (Not Just Your Wallet)

    Debt can feel like quicksand, but it’s often not just about the math. It’s about:

    • The stories you tell yourself about money.
    • The shame or guilt you carry from past mistakes.
    • The anxiety that makes you want to avoid looking at your accounts.

    Think about it:

    • How many times have you avoided checking your credit card balance?
    • How often do you think, “I’ll deal with this later,” when it comes to debt?
    • How many times have you paid off a balance, only to end up back in debt again later?

    This isn’t about being “bad” with money – it’s about being human.

    We live in a world that encourages overspending, instant gratification, and comparison. Debt happens. But freedom from it? That happens when you combine practical steps with internal shifts.

    ? The 3 Simple Shifts That Can Speed Up Your Debt Freedom Journey

    Let’s dive into the real magic. Here are the three powerful mindset shifts that can help you:

    • Pay off debt faster.
    • Stop the cycle of yo-yo debt.
    • Build financial confidence along the way.

    Shift #1: From Shame to Ownership

    Here’s the thing about debt: It thrives in secrecy.

    The more we hide from it, the more it grows, and the worse we feel. Shame sounds like:

    • “I should have known better.”
    • “I’m terrible with money.”
    • “I’ll never get ahead.”

    But here’s the truth:

    • Debt doesn’t define you.
    • Your past mistakes don’t determine your future.
    • You can learn new skills and create different results.

    The first step toward debt freedom isn’t cutting expenses, it’s cutting the shame.

    Action Step:

    • Write down your total debt, every dollar, every balance.
    • Look at it with neutrality – this is data, not a character flaw.

    Say this out loud:

    “This is where I am right now. It’s not permanent. I have the power to change it.” This simple shift from shame to ownership changes everything.

    Shift #2: From Scarcity to Empowered Planning

    Many people approach debt payoff from a place of fear:

    “I need to get rid of this ASAP or else!”

    “I have to sacrifice everything until I’m debt-free.”

    But here’s the problem:

    • Extreme approaches rarely last.
    • Scarcity leads to burnout and yo-yo spending.

    Instead, approach debt payoff from a place of empowerment: “I am intentionally choosing where my money goes each month.”

    This means:

    • Making a realistic debt payoff plan that fits your actual life.
    • Balancing progress with joy, you don’t have to cut everything you love.
    • Prioritising consistency over speed.

    Action Step: Choose a debt payoff method that feels good to you:

    • Debt Snowball: Pay off the smallest balance first for quick wins.
    • Debt Avalanche: Pay off the highest-interest debt first to save money long-term.

    Create a monthly payment plan that includes money for fun and savings. This way, you’ll stay motivated—and avoid slipping back into debt later.

    Create a monthly payment plan that includes money for fun and savings.

    Shift #3: From Avoidance to Proactive Credit Care

    Ah, credit scores, the mysterious numbers that somehow rule our financial lives. Many people either obsess over their credit or completely avoid it. But here’s the truth:

    • Your credit score isn’t your enemy, it’s just a tool.
    • You don’t need to obsess over it daily, but ignoring it won’t help either.

    Proactive credit care means:

    • Checking your credit report at least once a year (you can do this for free!).
    • Disputing any errors that could be dragging your score down.
    • Making consistent, on-time payments to build positive credit history.
    • Keeping credit utilization low (aim for under 30% of your limits).

    Action Step:

    • Go to equifax.com.au and pull your free credit report.
    • Check for errors or suspicious activity.
    • Set up automatic payments for at least the minimum on all debts to protect your score.

    When you face your credit head-on, it becomes a tool, not a threat.

    ? Debt Freedom & Saving: The Power Duo

    Here’s something most debt advice misses: Paying off debt without saving at the same time can backfire. Why? Because if you throw every dollar at debt but don’t have any savings, guess what happens the next time life throws a curveball? Yep – you end up right back in debt.

    Even while you’re paying off debt, it’s essential to:

    • Build a starter emergency fund (even just $500 to $1,000).
    • Save a little every month, even if it’s $10 or $25.

    This small cushion keeps you from relying on credit when unexpected expenses pop up, and they will.

    Action Step:

    • Open a separate savings account (nicknamed “Safety Net” if you like!).
    • Set up automatic transfers – even small ones.
    • Celebrate every deposit, no matter how small.

    This helps break the cycle of debt for good.

    ? Why Debt Freedom Is More Emotional Than You Think

    Here’s something I see all the time in my coaching work: People think paying off debt will automatically make them feel better.

    But here’s the secret:

    • Debt freedom feels amazing, but it also brings up unexpected emotions.
    • Many people feel a strange sense of loss when they finish paying off debt.
    • Others struggle with identity shifts – “Who am I without debt?”
    • And some even self-sabotage and fall back into debt again.

    This is why working on your money mindset while paying off debt is so important. It’s not just about the numbers, it’s about your emotional relationship with money, freedom, and self-worth.

    Working on your money mindset while paying off debt is so important.

    ? Your Debt-Free Future Starts with One Step (But It’s Not What You Think)

    If you’re feeling overwhelmed by your debt right now, here’s what I want you to know:

    You don’t need to:

    • Have a perfect plan.
    • Pay it all off overnight.
    • Deprive yourself to succeed.

    You just need to:

    • Get clear on your numbers.
    • Shift your mindset from shame to empowerment.
    • Take consistent, small actions.

    And yes – this is exactly why inside my Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover program, we don’t just talk about debt payoff tactics. We go deep into:

    • Money mindset shifts that last.
    • Customised debt payoff strategies that work for your real life.
    • Credit confidence – so you’re empowered, not intimidated.
    • Saving alongside debt payoff to build true financial stability.

    It’s about creating a debt-free life you love – not one that feels like a punishment. 

    ? Ready to Take Action? (Mini Challenge!)

    Let’s finish this post with a quick action step to help you get started today.

    Debt Freedom Mini Challenge:

    1. Write down your current total debt balance – no judgment, just facts.
    2. Choose your preferred payoff method: Snowball (smallest balance first) or Avalanche (highest interest first).
    3. Set a realistic target date for your first major milestone – paying off ONE account.
    4. Automate your minimum payments, plus an extra small amount toward your top-priority debt.
    5. Start a tiny emergency fund – even just $10 this week – to protect your progress.

    Take one step at a time, and watch the momentum build.

    ? Final Thoughts: You’re Closer to Debt Freedom Than You Think

    Here’s what I want you to walk away with today: Debt freedom isn’t about punishment – it’s about empowerment. You don’t have to wait to feel good about your money – you can start now, even while in debt. Small, consistent shifts – both practical and emotional – are what create lasting change.

    And if you’re ready to take this work deeper – so you can finally break free from debt, grow your savings, and feel peaceful with your money? Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover program opens on September 10th. Inside, we’ll tackle:

    • Debt payoff (without shame or extreme restrictions).
    • Credit confidence (in plain English!).
    • Sustainable saving habits.
    • And the deep money mindset work that makes all the difference.

    This isn’t just another debt payoff plan, it’s a total transformation for your financial life. Get ready, friend – your next chapter starts soon.

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    Are You Ignoring Your Financial Safety Net? Why Wills & Estate Planning Matter (Even If You’re Young!)

    Are You Ignoring Your Financial Safety Net? Why Wills & Estate Planning Matter (Even If You’re Young!)

    Aug 20, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Payment, Educational Series, Episodes, Estate Planning, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Management 101, Mindset, Mortgage, Net Worth, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money, Wills

    Alright, friend… it’s time we talk about something that everyone needs, but almost no one wants to deal with.

    Wills. Estate Planning. Life insurance.

    Did your eyes just glaze over?

    Did you suddenly feel an overwhelming urge to click away or scroll to the fun stuff on Instagram?
    Stay with me, because this may just be one of the most important money conversations you’ll ever have. Here’s the hard truth:

    If you’re ignoring estate planning because you think it’s “only for rich people” or “something I can figure out later,” you’re playing a dangerous game with your financial future, and the people you love most.
    In this post, I’m going to:

    • Bust the biggest myths about wills and estate planning.
    • Show you why everyone (yes, even you!) needs a plan.
    • Break down exactly what you need to do – without confusing legal jargon.
    • Help you take simple, meaningful action to protect your future.

    And don’t worry, this isn’t going to be dry or boring.

    We’re going to make this approachable, empowering, and (dare I say?) a little fun. Because protecting your future should feel like an act of love and self-respect, not something you dread.

    ? Myth #1: “Estate Planning Is Only for Rich People”

    Let’s start here, because this myth is everywhere. When most people hear the phrase “estate planning,” they picture wealthy people with sprawling mansions, yachts, and family fortunes that need protecting. But here’s the truth: If you own anything – even a car, a bank account, or a pet – you have an estate.

    Estate planning isn’t just for millionaires. It’s for:

    • The young professional with a growing savings account.
    • The parent who wants to protect their kids.
    • The small business owner with assets tied to their company.
    • The renter with a car loan and a retirement fund.

    If you have money, possessions, dependents, or even digital assets – estate planning applies to you.

    If you own anything - even a car, a bank account, or a pet - you have an estate.

    ? Why Avoiding Estate Planning Could Cost You (Big Time)

    I get it – thinking about wills, death, and “what ifs” isn’t exactly a fun Friday night activity. But here’s the thing… Avoiding estate planning doesn’t make it go away. It just creates more chaos for the people you care about most. Without a will or estate plan in place:

    • The courts decide who gets your assets – and it may not align with your wishes.
    • Your loved ones could be tied up in legal battles for months (or even years).
    • Minor children could end up with a guardian chosen by the court – not you.
    • Your hard-earned money could get eaten up by legal fees, taxes, or other costs.

    In short, not planning can create stress, delays, and heartache at the worst possible time.

    But when you take just a little time to set up your financial safety net? You give your loved ones clarity, protection, and peace of mind.

    ? “But I’m Too Young for a Will!”

    Another common myth? Thinking you’re too young to need a will. Here’s a little truth bomb:

    Wills aren’t about age – they’re about responsibility.

    You may not think you need one yet, but ask yourself:

    • Do you have savings, retirement accounts, or life insurance?
    • Do you have pets who rely on you?
    • Do you own a car, home, or business?
    • Do you have people who depend on your income?
    • Do you have strong opinions about where your money should go if something happens to you?

    If you answered yes to any of those, it’s time to start planning. Remember—estate planning isn’t about expecting the worst. It’s about being prepared for whatever life throws your way.

    ✨ Estate Planning: It’s Not Just About Death – It’s About Life, Too!

    One of the most overlooked parts of estate planning? It’s not just about what happens after you’re gone. It also protects you while you’re alive, especially if you ever:

    • Become seriously ill.
    • Get injured and can’t manage your finances or healthcare decisions.

    Your estate plan can include documents like:

    • Power of Attorney: Designating someone you trust to manage your finances if you can’t.
    • Healthcare Directive: Outlining your wishes for medical treatment and end-of-life care.
    • Guardianship Designations: Naming who will care for your minor children if you’re unable to.

    These documents ensure your voice is heard – no matter what.

    ? What’s Actually Included in a Basic Estate Plan?

    Let’s strip away the legal jargon and break this down simply. Here’s what most people need in their estate plan:

    1. A Will

    This legal document spells out:

    • Who will inherit your assets (money, property, belongings, etc.).
    • Who will take care of your children or dependents (if applicable).
    • Who will manage your estate (called an executor)

    What To Include in A Basic Estate Plan

    2. Power of Attorney (POA)

    This gives someone legal authority to:

    • Handle your finances if you’re incapacitated.
    • Make decisions on your behalf if you can’t.

    3. Healthcare Directive (Living Will)

    This outlines your medical wishes if you’re unable to communicate them.

    4. Beneficiary Designations

    Certain accounts (like life insurance, retirement accounts, and some bank accounts) allow you to name a beneficiary directly. These override your will, so it’s crucial to keep them updated.

    5. Guardianship Designations (If Applicable)

    If you have minor children, this document names who you want to raise them if you’re unable to.

    Bonus: Trusts (Optional for Some)

    While not necessary for everyone, trusts can:

    • Help avoid probate (the legal process of validating a will).
    • Provide additional control over how and when assets are distributed.
    • Offer potential tax benefits.

    ? How to Get Started with Estate Planning (Without Feeling Overwhelmed)

    Deep breath – this doesn’t have to be complicated! Here’s how to start, step by step:

    Step 1: Take Inventory

    List all your:

    • Bank accounts
    • Retirement accounts
    • Investments
    • Properties
    • Vehicles
    • Insurance policies
    • Personal belongings of high value
    • Digital assets (crypto, social media, etc.)

    Step 2: Clarify Your Wishes

    Think about:

    • Who should inherit your assets?
    • Who do you trust to handle your finances and healthcare if needed?
    • Who would you want to care for your kids or pets?
    • Are there any charitable causes you’d like to support?

    Step 3: Get Legal Help (If Needed)

    While you can create simple wills online for a low cost, it’s often wise to consult an estate attorney, especially if:

    • You have significant assets.
    • You own a business.
    • You have a blended family or complex situation.

    Step 4: Communicate Your Plan

    This is the step most people skip, but it’s essential! Let your loved ones know:

    • That you’ve created an estate plan.
    • Where they can find the documents.
    • Who has been designated for certain roles.

    Transparency now avoids confusion later.

    Step 5: Review & Update Regularly

    Life changes – your estate plan should too. Revisit your documents anytime you:

    • Get married or divorced.
    • Have children.
    • Move to a new state (laws vary).
    • Experience major financial changes.

    ? But What If You Don’t Have Much to Leave Behind?

    Here’s a powerful truth: Estate planning isn’t just about leaving behind money – it’s about leaving behind clarity. Even if your financial picture feels “small” right now, your loved ones will still need to:

    • Handle your debts and bills.
    • Access your accounts.
    • Close out your digital presence.
    • Make healthcare decisions if needed.

    Having a clear plan ensures they can do so smoothly. Plus, it sends a strong message: “I respect myself and the people I care about enough to plan ahead.”

    ? Estate Planning = Empowerment, Not Fear

    I get it – this can all feel heavy. But here’s how I want you to reframe it:

    Estate planning isn’t about preparing for doom and gloom.

    It’s about:

    • Taking ownership of your life.
    • Protecting your family.
    • Making your wishes known.
    • Creating peace of mind, for you and for those you love.

    It’s one of the most profound acts of love and responsibility you can make.

    ? How This Connects to Your Financial Breakthrough

    In my Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover program, we don’t just focus on day-to-day money tasks like budgeting and debt. We go deeper, because true financial empowerment covers everything. That includes:

    • Building your savings.
    • Tackling your debt.
    • Creating an intentional spending plan.
    • AND making sure your financial house is in order with estate planning.

    Most programs skip this step, but I refuse to. Why? Because I’ve seen firsthand how having a financial safety net changes lives.

    In the program, you’ll:

    • Learn exactly what legal documents you need.
    • Get simple checklists to help you start (even if you’re a total beginner).
    • Be guided through tough but important questions with compassion and clarity.

    It’s all about making this process approachable, doable, and even empowering.

    ? Ready to Take Action? (Mini Challenge!)

    Let’s get you started today with a bite-sized action step.

    Estate Planning Mini Challenge:

    Make a list of ALL your current accounts and assets. Check the beneficiaries on your bank accounts and retirement funds. Update them if needed.

    Choose ONE document to tackle this month:

    • Will
    • Power of Attorney
    • Healthcare Directive

    Start with the easiest one for you. This tiny step will start creating massive peace of mind, and it’s easier than you think.

    ? Final Thoughts: Your Legacy Starts Now

    Here’s what I want you to remember: Estate planning isn’t just for “older” or “wealthy” people – it’s for everyone who wants to protect their future.

    You don’t need to do it all at once, but starting somewhere is powerful. This isn’t about fear – it’s about empowerment, peace of mind, and love.

    And if you’re ready to take this even further to finally build a money plan that covers everything from budgeting to wills and beyond, get ready. My Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover opens on September 10th, and it’s designed to help you:

    • Create lasting financial change.
    • Build a money system that works for your life.
    • Feel empowered, organised, and confident with your finances – once and for all.

    You’ve got this, and I’m cheering you on every step of the way.

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    Budgeting Without Deprivation: Why Your Budget Isn’t Working (Yet!)

    Budgeting Without Deprivation: Why Your Budget Isn’t Working (Yet!)

    Aug 13, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Payment, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Management 101, Mortgage, Net Worth, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money

    Raise your hand if you’ve ever tried to stick to a budget…

    …only to find yourself breaking it faster than you can say “unexpected Amazon purchase.”

    Yep, I see you. And you’re not alone.

    Budgets have gotten a bad rap over the years.

    For many people, the word “budget” feels about as appealing as:

    • Giving up your daily coffee runs.
    • Saying “no” to dinners out with friends.
    • Counting every single penny and feeling like you’re constantly falling short.

    But here’s the truth nobody talks about:

    Your budget isn’t failing because you’re bad with money.

    It’s likely failing because it wasn’t built to work for you in the first place. Today, I’m going to show you:

    • Why most budgets backfire (and it has nothing to do with willpower).
    • How to reframe budgeting as a freedom tool – not a punishment.
    • My favorite tips to create a budget that actually sticks (without feeling deprived!).

    By the end of this post, you’ll feel empowered to take control of your money in a way that feels personal, realistic, and – dare I say it – fun. Ready? Let’s dive in.

    ? The Real Reason Most Budgets Fail

    Here’s the million-dollar question:

    Why do so many budgets start with excitement… but crash and burn within weeks?

    Simple:

    Most people create budgets from a place of restriction, not intention.

    Think about it.

    When people sit down to “get serious” about money, they often whip out a budgeting app or spreadsheet and immediately start slashing everything they love:

    • No more takeout.
    • No more fun shopping.
    • No more travel.

    It’s like putting your money on a crash diet. And just like a crash diet, it’s unsustainable. You might stick with it for a week or two. Maybe even a month. But eventually, you’ll start to feel suffocated. Deprived. Frustrated.

    And then? You rebel.

    Suddenly, you’re splurging on things you “shouldn’t” buy, feeling guilty, and thinking, “I just suck at budgeting.”

    Sound familiar?

    ? Why Budgeting Doesn’t Have to Feel Like Deprivation

    Here’s the mindset shift that changes everything: Your budget isn’t a punishment. It’s a permission slip.

    Let me say that again, louder for the people in the back: Your budget is a tool that gives you permission to spend on what truly matters to you.

    Budgeting isn’t about cutting everything out of your life. It’s about:

    • Getting clear on your values.
    • Prioritising what brings you joy and security.
    • Being intentional with every dollar.

    It’s the ultimate act of self-respect and self-care. Because when you create a budget that aligns with your goals, you’re telling yourself: “I trust myself with money. I’m creating a life that feels good today and tomorrow.”

      Your budget isn’t a punishment. It’s a permission slip.

      Your budget isn’t a punishment. It’s a permission slip. Your budget is a tool that gives you permission to spend on what truly matters to you.

      ✨ The 3 Most Common Budget Mistakes (And How to Fix Them!)

      Let’s get specific. Here are the biggest budgeting mistakes I see over and over and how you can fix them starting today.

      Mistake #1: You’re Budgeting for a Fantasy, Not Your Real Life

      So many people create their budget based on what they wish their life looked like, not how they actually live. You might be thinking:

      • “I’ll just cut my grocery spending in half.”
      • “I’ll stop eating out completely.”
      • “No more personal spending for the next three months!”

      But here’s the problem:

      • You still have to eat.
      • You still want to enjoy your life.
      • You’re not going to suddenly become a minimalist monk overnight.

      Solution: Budget for your real life, not your fantasy version.

      Ask yourself:

      • What are my non-negotiables? (Coffee, takeout, hobbies, etc.)
      • Where am I willing to cut back (for now)?
      • How can I adjust slowly instead of all at once?

      Mistake #2: You’re Not Building in Flexibility

      Life happens. Unexpected expenses come up. Surprise celebrations pop onto the calendar. Your car decides to remind you it needs repairs (usually at the worst possible time).

      Most budgets fail because they’re too rigid. Every dollar is assigned perfectly… until reality hits.

      Solution: Build in buffer zones.

      In your budget, always include:

      • A miscellaneous category for unexpected expenses.
      • A “fun money” allowance—even if it’s small—to spend guilt-free.
      • A savings cushion for bigger unexpected costs over time.

      This way, your budget can bend without breaking.

      Tie every budgeting choice to a goal that lights you up.

      ? How to Create a Budget You’ll Actually Stick To (Without Feeling Deprived)

      Let’s get into the practical part! Here’s my step-by-step process for creating a feel-good, flexible, empowering budget that works for real people with real lives.

      Step 1: Know Your Numbers (Without Shame!)

      You can’t improve what you don’t measure. Start by gathering:

      • Your monthly income (after taxes).
      • Fixed expenses (rent, utilities, insurance, subscriptions).
      • Variable expenses (groceries, gas, dining out, etc.).
      • Minimum debt payments.

      Remember, this isn’t about judging yourself. It’s about getting honest with where you’re at.

      Step 2: Identify Your Financial Priorities

      Ask yourself:

      • What matters most to me right now?
      • Which goals am I working toward over the next 3–6 months?

      Examples:

      • Paying off credit card debt.
      • Saving for a vacation.
      • Building an emergency fund.

      Rank them in order of importance.

      Step 3: Allocate Your Income (The Empowered Way!)

      Now it’s time to assign your dollars. Start with this simple formula:

      • Fixed Expenses – Cover your essentials first.
      • Savings & Debt Goals – Direct money toward your top priorities.
      • Variable Expenses – Budget realistically for your daily life.
      • Fun Money & Flex Funds – Yes, this is non-negotiable!

      Every dollar should have a job, but make sure some of those jobs bring you joy!

      Step 4: Automate Where You Can

      Take the mental work out of budgeting by automating:

      • Bill payments
      • Minimum debt payments
      • Savings contributions (even small ones!)

      Automation reduces decision fatigue and makes it easier to stay on track.

      Step 5: Check In Weekly (Not Just Monthly!)

      Most people only check their budget once a month… or never. That’s like driving with your eyes closed until you crash. Instead, commit to a weekly money date with yourself.

      Ask:

      • What went well this week?
      • Where did I overspend or underspend?
      • Do I need to adjust anything for the week ahead?

      This keeps you engaged and in control, without feeling overwhelmed.

      ? Yes, You Can Still Have Lattes and Takeout (Here’s How!)

      Let’s address the elephant in the room. Do you have to give up your favorite things to succeed financially? Absolutely not.

      Here’s the trick:

      • Budget for them intentionally.
      • Scale back elsewhere if needed.
      • Enjoy them guilt-free.

      Maybe that means fewer takeout nights… but keeping your Friday sushi ritual. Maybe it means making coffee at home most days… but savoring your weekend café visits.

      It’s about balance, not restriction.

      You can still keep your Friday sushi ritual with the fam!

      If you budget intentionally, you can still keep your Friday sushi ritual with the fam without the guilt!

      It’s about balance, not restriction.

      ? How This Ties Into the Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover

      This is exactly why I spend a full section of my Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover guiding people through budgeting in a whole new way. We don’t just talk numbers – we talk values:

      • What makes you feel secure?
      • What experiences light you up?
      • How can your money fuel the life you want, both today and in the future?

      You’ll learn how to:

      • Build a flexible budget that supports your goals.
      • Ditch the guilt around spending.
      • Create a money plan that feels empowering—not restrictive.

      And the best part? You’ll have support, accountability, and expert guidance every step of the way.

      ? Ready to Take the First Step? (Mini Challenge!)

      Here’s a quick exercise to get you started today:

      The Budget Clarity Challenge:

      • Write down your top 3 financial goals for the next 90 days.
      • Review your last month of spending (no judgment!).
      • Highlight every purchase that didn’t align with your goals.

      Ask yourself:

      What can I adjust next month to better support my goals, without cutting out everything I enjoy?

      Choose one small change you’ll make this week. This simple process can open your eyes to how you’re currently spending, and show you just how much power you have to shift it.

      ? Final Thoughts: Budgeting Is About Freedom, Not Frustration

      Here’s what I want you to remember:

      Budgeting isn’t about deprivation – it’s about designing a life you love. Your money can support your dreams, your joy, and your future security – all at the same time.

      You don’t need to be “perfect” with your budget. You just need to stay consistent and flexible.

      And if you’re ready to dive deeper into this work, to finally build a money system that sticks – keep your eyes open. My Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover program opens for enrollment on September 10th.

      Together, we’ll build a budget that works with your life, not against it, and set you up for financial freedom that lasts.

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      Why This Financial Year is Your Year to Get Ahead

      Why This Financial Year is Your Year to Get Ahead

      Jul 30, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Payment, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money, Self Development, Side Hustle

      New financial year. New mindset. New money moves. ?

      There’s something incredibly powerful about the start of a new financial year. It’s like someone pressed the reset button and handed you a fresh shot at reaching your goals.

      And this time? It’s personal. This is your year to get ahead – not just in your bank account, but in your mindset, your confidence, and your whole relationship with money.

      Here’s how to make this year the one where you finally feel in control, empowered, and excited about your finances.

      1. Own the Clean Slate (And Leave the Shame Behind)

      We’ve all made money mistakes. Whether it was overspending, ignoring super, or living paycheck to paycheck, the past doesn’t define your future.

      The new financial year is your opportunity to let that go and start fresh – no guilt required.

      Try this:

      • Write down one lesson you learned last financial year
      • Then write down one intention you have for this year

      Acknowledge it. Release it. Reset.

      2. Create a Vision That Excites You (Not Just a Budget)

      Most people avoid budgets because they feel like punishment. So let’s reframe it.

      Instead of thinking “how do I cut back?” think: “how can I build a life I love through intentional spending?”

      Visualise:

      • Where you want to be 12 months from now
      • What you want more of (freedom, travel, less stress?)
      • What needs to shift to make that happen

      Pro tip: Make a vision board or write a “money mission statement” for the year. Put it somewhere you’ll see often.

      3. Get Clear on Your Numbers (Clarity is Confidence)

      You can’t get ahead if you’re in the dark about where you stand. It’s time to face the numbers with curiosity, not fear.

      Check in on:

      • Your income sources
      • Your fixed expenses (bills, mortgage/rent, etc.)
      • Your variable spending (fun stuff, subscriptions, eating out)
      • Your debt (what you owe and to who)
      • Your savings and investments

      Action step: Do a quick money audit this week. You don’t need to obsess, just get an honest snapshot.

      Create a Simple Money Plan

      4. Set One Bold Financial Goal (And Break It Down)

      Big goals are inspiring. But if they feel too far away, you might give up before you start. Pick one bold, exciting goal for the year – something that lights a fire in your belly.

      Examples:

      • Save $15,000 for a home deposit
      • Pay off a credit card
      • Start investing for the first time
      • Build a 3-month emergency fund

      Then break it down:

      • What does that look like monthly?
      • What habits need to change?
      • What support or tools will help?

      5. Build a System That Works on Autopilot

      Motivation comes and goes. Systems stick. Use the new financial year to design your money flow:

      • Set up automatic transfers to savings and bills
      • Separate accounts for spending, bills, and fun
      • Review and reduce expenses where possible

      Make it easy to win. That way, even on your off days, your money is still working for you.

      6. Learn One New Money Skill Each Quarter

      Financial growth isn’t just about earning more, it’s about knowing more. Commit to learning just one new skill every quarter. That could be:

      How to invest in ETFs

      How to negotiate your bills

      How superannuation actually works

      How to set up a side hustle

      Try this: Choose a podcast, book, YouTube series, or online course. Block out one hour a week to learn. That’s it. I have plenty of these to help you get started, just head over my website and see what resources you can download. CLICK HERE.

      7. Celebrate Every Win (Progress Over Perfection)

      Too often we focus on what’s not working. But building confidence comes from celebrating small wins consistently.

      • Did you transfer $100 to savings? Win. Did you say no to something you didn’t really want to buy? Win.
      • Did you open your super statement for the first time ever? Win.

      Progress creates momentum. And momentum creates results. Create a “money wins” list and add to it every month. You’ll be amazed how far you’ve come.

      This is Your Year Because You Say So

      You don’t need to wait for a pay rise, a partner, or perfect timing. You have everything you need right now to take the next step.

      • A fresh new year
      • A clean slate
      • A decision to back yourself

      Whether your goal is to pay off debt, grow savings, or simply feel less anxious when you open your bank app, this year is yours to make it happen.

      If you’re ready for a fresh plan and a financial coach in your corner, let’s chat. Book your free discovery session and let’s make this the year you finally get ahead – with clarity, confidence, and ease. You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

      Let’s make this financial year your best one yet.

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