The Holiday Season Budget Blueprint: Save Big Without Sacrificing Joy

The Holiday Season Budget Blueprint: Save Big Without Sacrificing Joy

Nov 26, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Payment, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Episodes, Estate Planning, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Holiday Season, Holiday Spending, Home Loan, Mindset, Mortgage, Net Worth, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money, Self Development

The holiday season is often painted with glitter and gold – literally and financially. Between decorations, gifts, food, travel, and events, it can feel like every December demands a sky-high budget. But here’s the truth: you can absolutely have a joyful, memorable holiday without draining your bank account or maxing out your credit cards.

Enter the Holiday Season Budget Blueprint: a practical, five-step guide to help you spend wisely, celebrate fully, and start the new year without a financial hangover. It’s not about saying “no” to the fun stuff – it’s about saying “yes” to the things that truly matter.

Let’s break it down.

Step 1: Define What Matters Most

Before you open your wallet, take a step back and ask: What do I want this holiday season to feel like?

Is it about quality time, rest, giving back, tradition, creativity, or connection? When you define your values first, it becomes easier to:

  • Cut unnecessary spending
  • Set clear priorities
  • Say no to what doesn’t align with your goals 

Remember: Your budget isn’t just a money tool – it’s a reflection of your values.

Step 2: Set a Realistic, All-Inclusive Budget

Next, figure out your total holiday spending limit. This number should come from your current financial reality, not wishful thinking or social pressure. Include:

  • Gifts
  • Food and drinks
  • Travel and accommodations
  • Decorations
  • Wrapping supplies and cards
  • Event tickets or outings
  • Donations and giving
  • Festive extras (e.g., matching pajamas, holiday movies, etc.)

Set a Realistic, All-Inclusive Budget

Bonus: Build in a “buffer” of 10% for those inevitable last-minute expenses.

Pro tip: If you haven’t started a holiday sinking fund yet, this is your sign to plan one for next year. Even $20/month makes a big difference by December.

Step 3: Create a Budget Blueprint That Works for You

Once you have your total holiday budget, break it into categories that fit your life.

Example Blueprint (for a $600 budget):

  • Gifts: $300
  • Food/Entertainment: $100
  • Travel: $75
  • Decorations: $50
  • Charitable Giving: $25
  • Misc/Fun: $50

Now, get specific:

  • List who you’re buying gifts for and set a per-person amount
  • Plan your meals or parties and estimate costs
  • Look up travel prices now to avoid inflated last-minute bookings 

Don’t forget digital tools:

  • Budgeting apps (EveryDollar, YNAB, Mint)
  • Spreadsheets – my budget/spending plan
  • Cash envelope system

The key is to track as you go. Awareness prevents overspending.

Step 4: Use Smart Saving and Spending Strategies

Now for the fun part: making your budget go further without cutting the joy.

Holiday Saving Hacks:

  • Use cashback apps (Rakuten, Honey, Fetch)

     

  • Stack coupons and loyalty points

     

  • Shop early to spread out costs

     

  • Buy in bulk or split bundles with others

     

  • Thrift or upcycle decor and outfits

Joyful (But Budget-Friendly) Alternatives:

  • Experiences over things: movie nights, game nights, or DIY spa days
  • DIY gifts: baked goods, photo albums, handmade crafts
  • Shared hosting: make events potluck-style to share food and fun
  • Decor on a dime: nature-inspired decor, secondhand finds, or family DIY sessions

With a little creativity, you can keep the festive spirit alive and keep your spending aligned with your values.

make events potluck-style to share food and fun

Step 5: Celebrate With Intention, Not Obligation

This one’s big: don’t let expectations drive your spending. Just because “you always do it this way” doesn’t mean you have to this year.

Say no to:

  • Oversized gift exchanges that cause stress
  • Events that don’t bring joy or fit your budget
  • Trying to match what others are doing on social media

Say yes to:

  • Meaningful moments over material things
  • New traditions that reflect your current season of life
  • Giving from the heart, not the wallet

When you let go of obligation, you make space for a holiday that’s truly aligned with your values and your finances.

Final Thoughts: Make Your Holiday Budget Work For You

The best holiday memories often come from the simple things: laughter, traditions, and time spent with the people who matter most. When you take control of your money with a clear budget, you remove stress and open up space for genuine joy. Remember, the holidays aren’t about how much you spend, they’re about how fully you show up. With a blueprint in place, you can step into the season with confidence, celebrate with intention, and start the new year feeling empowered instead of overwhelmed.

Want more support in building healthy money habits all year round? Join my Monthly Coaching Program and let’s strengthen your financial muscle together!

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Know Your Numbers, Know Your Power: The Financial Foundation Everyone Needs

Know Your Numbers, Know Your Power: The Financial Foundation Everyone Needs

Sep 17, 2025 | Credit Score, Debt Payment, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Episodes, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Home Loan, Mindset, Mortgage, Net Worth, Retirement, Saving Money

Here’s a truth bomb:

You can’t master what you won’t measure.

So if you’re serious about taking control of your money, building wealth, and creating financial freedom, you need to know your numbers.

And no, we’re not talking about becoming a spreadsheet wizard or tracking every cent forever. We’re talking about building a relationship with your money that feels empowering, clear, and doable.

In this post, we’ll cover:

  • What “knowing your numbers” actually means
  • The 5 key numbers everyone should know
  • How avoiding your numbers keeps you stuck
  • Tools and tips to make it simple
  • How this connects to building your financial muscle

? Why Knowing Your Numbers Matters?

If money feels overwhelming, it’s often because we’re operating in the dark.

Most people avoid their finances until something breaks:

  • Overdraft fees hit
  • A credit card gets declined
  • A bill goes unpaid

Sound familiar?

But here’s the thing: Clarity is power. When you know your numbers, you take the wheel. You can:

  • Make informed decisions
  • Set real goals
  • Eliminate guesswork
  • Reduce stress

Knowing your numbers is one of the core steps to building financial muscle.

? What Is Financial Muscle, Anyway?

Financial muscle is your ability to make money work for you. It’s a mix of mindset, knowledge, habits, and systems that give you control over your finances – instead of the other way around.

Think of it like going to the gym. When you first start working out, everything feels awkward and hard. But the more consistent you are, the stronger and more confident you become.

Your financial muscle works the same way. It’s built by:

  • Mastering your money mindset
  • Creating strong financial foundations (like budgeting and saving)
  • Knowing your numbers (and facing them with clarity)
  • Managing debt with a plan
  • Understanding credit and how it works for you
  • Building wealth step-by-step
  • Protecting that wealth through planning and legacy tools

Sound like a lot? Don’t worry, it’s a process, and you don’t have to do it alone.

The 5 Key Numbers Everyone Should Know

Let’s break it down.

1. Your Income (Actual, Not Theoretical)

Not just your salary, your actual monthly take-home income after tax.

  • Include side hustles, child support, Centrelink, etc.
  • This is your fuel. You can’t budget what you don’t track.

2. Your Expenses (Fixed + Flexible)

  • Fixed: Rent, utilities, phone bills
  • Flexible: Groceries, fuel, entertainment
  • This helps you spot leaks and adjust without guessing

3. Your Debt (Total & Monthly Minimums)

  • What you owe (credit cards, personal loans, BNPL, student debt)
  • Include interest rates and payment due dates
  • This is key to making a realistic debt reduction plan

4. Your Savings (Emergency + Short-Term Goals)

  • Do you have 3-6 months’ worth of living expenses?
  • Are you saving for holidays, home, or retirement?
  • Even $10/week adds up with consistency

5. Your Credit Score

  • It impacts everything from loan approvals to interest rates
  • Many people never check it until it’s too late

When you know these numbers, you’re no longer in the dark. You’re in control.

What Happens When You Don’t Know Your Numbers

Let’s be real. Avoiding your numbers can lead to:

  • Overspending without realising it
  • Paying late fees or higher interest
  • Never knowing where your money is going
  • Constant financial anxiety

This creates the cycle of financial fog:

Avoid → Panic → Overspend → Avoid again

You deserve better.

? The Empowered Alternative: Financial Awareness

Knowing your numbers:

  • Reduces anxiety
  • Helps you set boundaries with money
  • Boosts your confidence
  • Allows you to plan for the future (not just react)

Think of it like GPS for your finances. If you don’t know where you are, how can you get where you want to go?

? Budgeting Doesn’t Mean Restriction – It Means Freedom

A budget is not a punishment. It’s a permission slip to spend without guilt.

When aligned with your values, budgeting becomes a powerful tool:

  • You decide where your money goes
  • You save for the things that matter most
  • You stop impulse spending because you’re clear on your goals

We teach this inside the Financial Freedom Breakthrough Program – with simple systems that are easy to stick to.

Working on your money mindset while paying off debt is so important.

? How to Start Knowing Your Numbers (Without Getting Overwhelmed)

1. Track 30 Days of Spending

You can’t fix what you don’t see. Use a spreadsheet, notebook, or an app like Pocketbook or MoneyBrilliant.

2. Create a Budget Based on Real Life

Use your actual spending to create a living, breathing budget, not a fantasy one.

3. List All Your Debts

Use a debt tracker to list balances, interest rates, and minimum payments. Knowledge is power here.

4. Automate What You Can

Set up auto-transfers to savings and bills. Remove the mental effort.

5. Schedule a Monthly Money Date

Pick one day each month to check in with your budget, debt, savings, and goals.

6. Join a Community or Program for Support

You don’t have to figure this out alone. Our program gives you coaching, templates, and accountability.

? Where This Fits in the Financial Freedom Diagram

Let’s revisit the Financial Management 101 Diagram. (See below)

People at the bottom (“struggling” and “overwhelmed”) often don’t know their numbers. That’s what keeps them stuck.

The middle of the diagram (“frustrated” or “surviving”) is where awareness starts to grow, but without a system, it’s hard to sustain progress.

At the top, people are confident, focused, and building financial muscle. They know their numbers, make decisions with clarity, and have money working for them.

? You Deserve to Feel Financially Empowered

Knowing your numbers isn’t about perfection. It’s about progress.

Every time you check in with your money, you send a powerful message: “I’m in charge. I’m building something better.”

? Ready to Know Your Numbers and Take Control?

Here are 3 ways to start:

  1. Download our free Budget & Money Map Tracker (coming soon)
  2. Join the waitlist for the September launch of the Financial Freedom Breakthrough Program
  3. Book a free clarity call to assess your current financial foundation

? Final Thoughts

Your numbers are not something to fear. They are your freedom tools.

The sooner you understand them, the sooner you can start using them to build a life you love.

Remember: Know your numbers, know your power.

Let’s build that financial foundation, one step at a time.

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Are You Ignoring Your Financial Safety Net? Why Wills & Estate Planning Matter (Even If You’re Young!)

Are You Ignoring Your Financial Safety Net? Why Wills & Estate Planning Matter (Even If You’re Young!)

Aug 20, 2025 | Book of the Week, Building Financial Muscle, Credit Score, Debt, Debt Payment, Educational Series, Episodes, Estate Planning, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Management 101, Mindset, Mortgage, Net Worth, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money, Wills

Alright, friend… it’s time we talk about something that everyone needs, but almost no one wants to deal with.

Wills. Estate Planning. Life insurance.

Did your eyes just glaze over?

Did you suddenly feel an overwhelming urge to click away or scroll to the fun stuff on Instagram?
Stay with me, because this may just be one of the most important money conversations you’ll ever have. Here’s the hard truth:

If you’re ignoring estate planning because you think it’s “only for rich people” or “something I can figure out later,” you’re playing a dangerous game with your financial future, and the people you love most.
In this post, I’m going to:

  • Bust the biggest myths about wills and estate planning.
  • Show you why everyone (yes, even you!) needs a plan.
  • Break down exactly what you need to do – without confusing legal jargon.
  • Help you take simple, meaningful action to protect your future.

And don’t worry, this isn’t going to be dry or boring.

We’re going to make this approachable, empowering, and (dare I say?) a little fun. Because protecting your future should feel like an act of love and self-respect, not something you dread.

? Myth #1: “Estate Planning Is Only for Rich People”

Let’s start here, because this myth is everywhere. When most people hear the phrase “estate planning,” they picture wealthy people with sprawling mansions, yachts, and family fortunes that need protecting. But here’s the truth: If you own anything – even a car, a bank account, or a pet – you have an estate.

Estate planning isn’t just for millionaires. It’s for:

  • The young professional with a growing savings account.
  • The parent who wants to protect their kids.
  • The small business owner with assets tied to their company.
  • The renter with a car loan and a retirement fund.

If you have money, possessions, dependents, or even digital assets – estate planning applies to you.

If you own anything - even a car, a bank account, or a pet - you have an estate.

? Why Avoiding Estate Planning Could Cost You (Big Time)

I get it – thinking about wills, death, and “what ifs” isn’t exactly a fun Friday night activity. But here’s the thing… Avoiding estate planning doesn’t make it go away. It just creates more chaos for the people you care about most. Without a will or estate plan in place:

  • The courts decide who gets your assets – and it may not align with your wishes.
  • Your loved ones could be tied up in legal battles for months (or even years).
  • Minor children could end up with a guardian chosen by the court – not you.
  • Your hard-earned money could get eaten up by legal fees, taxes, or other costs.

In short, not planning can create stress, delays, and heartache at the worst possible time.

But when you take just a little time to set up your financial safety net? You give your loved ones clarity, protection, and peace of mind.

? “But I’m Too Young for a Will!”

Another common myth? Thinking you’re too young to need a will. Here’s a little truth bomb:

Wills aren’t about age – they’re about responsibility.

You may not think you need one yet, but ask yourself:

  • Do you have savings, retirement accounts, or life insurance?
  • Do you have pets who rely on you?
  • Do you own a car, home, or business?
  • Do you have people who depend on your income?
  • Do you have strong opinions about where your money should go if something happens to you?

If you answered yes to any of those, it’s time to start planning. Remember—estate planning isn’t about expecting the worst. It’s about being prepared for whatever life throws your way.

✨ Estate Planning: It’s Not Just About Death – It’s About Life, Too!

One of the most overlooked parts of estate planning? It’s not just about what happens after you’re gone. It also protects you while you’re alive, especially if you ever:

  • Become seriously ill.
  • Get injured and can’t manage your finances or healthcare decisions.

Your estate plan can include documents like:

  • Power of Attorney: Designating someone you trust to manage your finances if you can’t.
  • Healthcare Directive: Outlining your wishes for medical treatment and end-of-life care.
  • Guardianship Designations: Naming who will care for your minor children if you’re unable to.

These documents ensure your voice is heard – no matter what.

? What’s Actually Included in a Basic Estate Plan?

Let’s strip away the legal jargon and break this down simply. Here’s what most people need in their estate plan:

1. A Will

This legal document spells out:

  • Who will inherit your assets (money, property, belongings, etc.).
  • Who will take care of your children or dependents (if applicable).
  • Who will manage your estate (called an executor)

What To Include in A Basic Estate Plan

2. Power of Attorney (POA)

This gives someone legal authority to:

  • Handle your finances if you’re incapacitated.
  • Make decisions on your behalf if you can’t.

3. Healthcare Directive (Living Will)

This outlines your medical wishes if you’re unable to communicate them.

4. Beneficiary Designations

Certain accounts (like life insurance, retirement accounts, and some bank accounts) allow you to name a beneficiary directly. These override your will, so it’s crucial to keep them updated.

5. Guardianship Designations (If Applicable)

If you have minor children, this document names who you want to raise them if you’re unable to.

Bonus: Trusts (Optional for Some)

While not necessary for everyone, trusts can:

  • Help avoid probate (the legal process of validating a will).
  • Provide additional control over how and when assets are distributed.
  • Offer potential tax benefits.

? How to Get Started with Estate Planning (Without Feeling Overwhelmed)

Deep breath – this doesn’t have to be complicated! Here’s how to start, step by step:

Step 1: Take Inventory

List all your:

  • Bank accounts
  • Retirement accounts
  • Investments
  • Properties
  • Vehicles
  • Insurance policies
  • Personal belongings of high value
  • Digital assets (crypto, social media, etc.)

Step 2: Clarify Your Wishes

Think about:

  • Who should inherit your assets?
  • Who do you trust to handle your finances and healthcare if needed?
  • Who would you want to care for your kids or pets?
  • Are there any charitable causes you’d like to support?

Step 3: Get Legal Help (If Needed)

While you can create simple wills online for a low cost, it’s often wise to consult an estate attorney, especially if:

  • You have significant assets.
  • You own a business.
  • You have a blended family or complex situation.

Step 4: Communicate Your Plan

This is the step most people skip, but it’s essential! Let your loved ones know:

  • That you’ve created an estate plan.
  • Where they can find the documents.
  • Who has been designated for certain roles.

Transparency now avoids confusion later.

Step 5: Review & Update Regularly

Life changes – your estate plan should too. Revisit your documents anytime you:

  • Get married or divorced.
  • Have children.
  • Move to a new state (laws vary).
  • Experience major financial changes.

? But What If You Don’t Have Much to Leave Behind?

Here’s a powerful truth: Estate planning isn’t just about leaving behind money – it’s about leaving behind clarity. Even if your financial picture feels “small” right now, your loved ones will still need to:

  • Handle your debts and bills.
  • Access your accounts.
  • Close out your digital presence.
  • Make healthcare decisions if needed.

Having a clear plan ensures they can do so smoothly. Plus, it sends a strong message: “I respect myself and the people I care about enough to plan ahead.”

? Estate Planning = Empowerment, Not Fear

I get it – this can all feel heavy. But here’s how I want you to reframe it:

Estate planning isn’t about preparing for doom and gloom.

It’s about:

  • Taking ownership of your life.
  • Protecting your family.
  • Making your wishes known.
  • Creating peace of mind, for you and for those you love.

It’s one of the most profound acts of love and responsibility you can make.

? How This Connects to Your Financial Breakthrough

In my Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover program, we don’t just focus on day-to-day money tasks like budgeting and debt. We go deeper, because true financial empowerment covers everything. That includes:

  • Building your savings.
  • Tackling your debt.
  • Creating an intentional spending plan.
  • AND making sure your financial house is in order with estate planning.

Most programs skip this step, but I refuse to. Why? Because I’ve seen firsthand how having a financial safety net changes lives.

In the program, you’ll:

  • Learn exactly what legal documents you need.
  • Get simple checklists to help you start (even if you’re a total beginner).
  • Be guided through tough but important questions with compassion and clarity.

It’s all about making this process approachable, doable, and even empowering.

? Ready to Take Action? (Mini Challenge!)

Let’s get you started today with a bite-sized action step.

Estate Planning Mini Challenge:

Make a list of ALL your current accounts and assets. Check the beneficiaries on your bank accounts and retirement funds. Update them if needed.

Choose ONE document to tackle this month:

  • Will
  • Power of Attorney
  • Healthcare Directive

Start with the easiest one for you. This tiny step will start creating massive peace of mind, and it’s easier than you think.

? Final Thoughts: Your Legacy Starts Now

Here’s what I want you to remember: Estate planning isn’t just for “older” or “wealthy” people – it’s for everyone who wants to protect their future.

You don’t need to do it all at once, but starting somewhere is powerful. This isn’t about fear – it’s about empowerment, peace of mind, and love.

And if you’re ready to take this even further to finally build a money plan that covers everything from budgeting to wills and beyond, get ready. My Your Financial Freedom Breakthrough™ – 90 Day Money Makeover opens on September 10th, and it’s designed to help you:

  • Create lasting financial change.
  • Build a money system that works for your life.
  • Feel empowered, organised, and confident with your finances – once and for all.

You’ve got this, and I’m cheering you on every step of the way.

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Why Every Small Business Owner Needs a Financial Coach in Their Corner

Why Every Small Business Owner Needs a Financial Coach in Their Corner

Apr 30, 2025 | Building Emotional Muscle, Building Financial Muscle, Debt, Debt Payment, Debt Repayment, Educational Series, Episodes, Financial Education, Financial Freedom, Financial Health, Financial Management 101, Home Loan, Mindset, Mortgage, Net Worth, Relationships, Retirement, Saving Money

Running a small business is no joke. You wear all the hats – CEO, marketer, customer service rep, bookkeeper, and sometimes even janitor. The freedom and flexibility of entrepreneurship are amazing, but let’s be real: it can also feel like you’re juggling flaming swords while riding a unicycle on a tightrope. And when it comes to managing money? That tightrope can feel extra wobbly.


Enter the financial coach.


While accountants and bookkeepers keep track of the numbers, a financial coach helps you understand what those numbers mean for your goals, mindset, and long-term business strategy. They’re not just here to look at your past, they’re here to help you shape your future.
Let’s break down exactly why working with a financial coach can be a total game-changer for small business owners.

1. Clarity is Power

So many business owners hustle day in and day out without a clear picture of where their money is going or how much they’re really making. A financial coach helps you:

  • Understand your cash flow
  • Track your expenses
  • Price your products/services strategically
  • Set income goals that align with your vision

When you know your numbers, you can make smarter decisions with more confidence. No more crossing your fingers and hoping there’s enough to cover next month.

Understand your cash flow

2. Mindset Matters More Than You Think

Money mindset is one of the most overlooked aspects of running a business. If you’ve got a hidden belief that you’re not “good with money” or that it’s wrong to want to be profitable, it will impact your business.

A financial coach helps you identify and rewrite those limiting beliefs so you can:

  • Raise your prices without guilt
  • Pay yourself consistently
  • Invest in growth with confidence
  • Stop playing small with your money goals

You don’t just need spreadsheets – you need support for the emotional and psychological side of money, too.

3. From Reactive to Proactive

Too many small business owners operate in reaction mode: paying bills as they come, scrambling during tax season, and constantly putting out financial fires. A financial coach helps you shift from reactive to proactive.

That means:

  • Planning for taxes year-round
  • Setting aside money for slow seasons
  • Creating a strategy to build consistent income
  • Mapping out your financial goals and the steps to get there

This isn’t just about staying afloat. It’s about building a solid, scalable foundation that supports long-term success.

4. Ditch the DIY Trap

There’s a lot of pressure on small business owners to figure everything out themselves. Google, YouTube, and online courses can only take you so far. But just like you wouldn’t expect your clients to solve all their problems without your help, you shouldn’t expect yourself to master business finances without support.

A financial coach gives you:

  • Accountability
  • Expert insights tailored to your business
  • A safe space to ask the “dumb” questions (spoiler alert: they’re never dumb)
  • A partner who’s as invested in your success as you are

5. You Deserve to be Paid Well for Your Work

Too many small business owners put themselves last on the payroll. They reinvest everything back into the business, believing that one day, it will all pay off. But guess what? You don’t have to wait to be profitable.

A financial coach helps you:

  • Create a plan to pay yourself regularly
  • Separate personal and business finances
  • Build profitability into your pricing and systems
  • Stop undercharging and undervaluing your genius

Because you didn’t start your business to just survive. You started it to thrive.

Create a plan to pay yourself regularly

6. Create a Business That Supports Your Life

Your business is a part of your life – not the other way around. A great financial coach will always bring the focus back to what you want:

  • More time with your family?
  • Travel?
  • Buying a home?
  • Debt freedom?

Whatever your version of success looks like, your financial plan should support it. A coach helps you design a business model and money strategy that aligns with your lifestyle goals.

Final Thoughts: Your Business Deserves a Financial Wingwoman (or Wingman)

You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just need the right support.

A financial coach isn’t just for people who are struggling. It’s for anyone who wants to grow with intention, take control of their finances, and build a business that actually feels good to run.

At Financial Management 101, that’s exactly what we’re here for. Whether you join our Monthly Coaching program and unlock The Vault, or dive deep into transformation through The EDGE, you’ll get the tools, clarity, and mindset shifts you need to run your business with confidence.

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Let’s build your business into the financial success story it’s meant to be – one intentional step at a time.

Introducing THE EDGE. This 2-Hour Power Session is a fast-paced, simplified version of my full 6-week coaching program for self employed business owners. Click the image below to know more about what you’ll be learning in this power session.

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