Why Do Most People Fail at Their New Year’s Resolutions and How Can I Actually Stick to My Financial Goals This Year?

Why Do Most People Fail at Their New Year’s Resolutions and How Can I Actually Stick to My Financial Goals This Year?

New Year, Same Resolutions? Let’s Talk About It.

Ahhh January the month of green smoothies, gym selfies, and freshly purchased planners that are definitely going to change your life this time, right?

If you’re like most people, you’ve probably made a few New Year’s resolutions that sounded amazing on January 1st… but by February? They’re long forgotten, buried under Uber Eats receipts and good intentions.

And when it comes to money goals? Ohhh, this is where the guilt hits hard.

So let’s break it down: Why do New Year’s resolutions fail and what can you do instead to actually stick to your financial goals this year?

Spoiler: It’s not about willpower. It’s about building financial muscle and that’s what I help people do every day.

The Stats Don’t Lie – Most Resolutions Don’t Last

According to research:

  • 43% of people expect to fail their resolutions by February
  • Only 9% actually feel successful by the end of the year
  • The most common failed resolutions? Diet, fitness… and yes — money

Why? Because most resolutions are made in the heat of a moment – not rooted in a system, a strategy, or support.

We say things like:

  • “I’m going to save $5,000 this year!”
  • “I’m cutting up ALL my credit cards!”
  • “I’ll never spend money on takeout again!”

…but we don’t have a real plan behind it. Just hope, hype, and maybe a pretty notebook.

New Year’s Resolutions

Why Financial Resolutions Fail: The Real Talk

Here’s what I’ve seen in my coaching practice over and over:

  1. The goal is too vague.
    “Get better with money” isn’t a goal – it’s a wish. Your brain doesn’t know what to do with that.
  2. There’s no timeline.
    Saving “someday” or “this year” doesn’t create urgency or clarity.
  3. You try to do too much, too fast.
    Going from zero to “never spending a dollar unless it’s pre-budgeted” is like deciding to run a marathon when you haven’t walked around the block in months.
  4. No accountability.
    When you’re the only one who knows your goals… it’s easy to quit. Life gets busy, bills pile up, and suddenly, your “big resolution” is a tab you closed weeks ago.
  5. Shame gets in the way.
    One slip-up, and your inner critic screams, “See?! You always mess this up!” And so you give up again.

Sound familiar?

So What Actually Works? (This Is Where It Gets Fun)

Instead of setting rigid resolutions, try this instead:

✅ Set Clear Financial Intentions – Not Punishments

Financial intentions focus on who you want to become and how you want to feel – not just what you want to do.

For example:

  • “I want to feel peaceful when I check my bank account.”
  • “I want to be someone who saves consistently.”
  • “I want to feel proud of my money decisions.”

From there, we build small, tangible goals that align with that intention. That’s the sweet spot.

✅ Build Micro Goals That Stack Into Momentum

Instead of “Save $5,000 this year,” try:

  • “Transfer $100 every payday to my savings account.”
  • “Do 1 no-spend weekend per month.”
  • “Track my spending daily for 30 days.”

These small actions feel doable and when done consistently, they change everything.

✅ Have a System – Not Just a Goal

Anyone can write a goal. But what’s your system to get there?

Here’s a basic system I teach inside my Financial Muscle Coaching:

  1. Weekly money check-ins (10 minutes)
  2. Monthly budget reviews
  3. Track 1 habit at a time (like spending or debt payments)
  4. Celebrate progress every month.

Have a Money Budgeting System

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Financial Resilience: Planning for Setbacks on Your Path to Debt Freedom

Financial Resilience: Planning for Setbacks on Your Path to Debt Freedom

Achieving a debt free life is a journey filled with highs and lows. While it’s great to stay optimistic, it’s equally important to be prepared for setbacks that might knock you off your progress. Unexpected expenses, job loss, medical bills, or even just plain old burnout can throw a spanner in your plans. The key to overcoming these challenges lies in building financial resilience. In this post, we’ll explore strategies to prepare for and bounce back from setbacks, ensuring you stay on track to becoming debt-free.

1. IDENTIFY YOUR MARKETABLE SKILLS

I bang on about this one all the time, why because an emergency fund is your financial safety net. It’s the cushion that helps absorb the shock of unexpected expenses without relying on credit cards or loans. A common rule of thumb is to have three to six months’ worth of living expenses saved.

Action Step:
Start by setting aside a small, manageable amount each week or month. Even $10 a week can add up. Automate your savings to ensure consistency and resist the temptation to dip into this fund for non-emergencies.

7. OFFER VIRTUAL SERVICES OR COACHING

Relying solely on one source of income can be risky. If you lose your job or face a reduction in hours, your finances can take a significant hit. Diversifying your income through side hustles, freelance work, or passive income streams can provide a buffer against such setbacks. I mentioned in a recent blog post tips and strategies on how “Using Your Talents to Accelerate Debt Repayment”. Go check this post out HERE.

Action Step:
Identify a side hustle or freelance opportunity that aligns with your skills. Set aside dedicated time each week to develop this secondary income stream.

3. CREATE A FINANCIAL CONTINGENCY PLAN

A contingency plan outlines what you’ll do in the face of financial setbacks. It could include steps like cutting back on non-essential expenses, using savings, or temporarily taking on additional work.

Action Step:
List potential setbacks and corresponding actions you would take to mitigate their impact. Keep this plan accessible and review it regularly.

4. PRACTICE CONSCIOUS SPENDING

Conscious spending involves being aware of where your money goes and making intentional choices. By being mindful of your spending, you’re better equipped to adjust your budget when faced with financial challenges.

Action Step:
Track all your spending for a month to identify where your money is going. Create a budget that prioritises essential expenses and allocates funds towards debt repayment and savings.

5. INVEST IN INSURANCE

Insurance is a vital component of financial resilience. Health insurance, home insurance, car insurance, and even disability insurance can protect you from significant financial setbacks. While it’s an added expense, the cost of not having adequate insurance can be much higher.

Action Step:
Review your current insurance policies and assess if you have adequate coverage. If not, consider adjusting your policies or shopping around for better rates.

6. PREPARE FOR IRREGULAR EXPENSES

Irregular expenses – like car repairs, home maintenance, or annual subscriptions can disrupt your debt repayment plan if not anticipated. Preparing for these expenses can prevent the need to rely on credit.

Action Step:
Review past expenses to identify irregular costs and create a separate savings fund for them. Allocate a small amount each month to this fund.

7. DEVELOP A DEBT REPAYMENT BUFFER

Instead of putting every last dollar towards debt, consider building a small buffer in your savings or checking account. This buffer can help cover unexpected expenses without halting your debt repayment plan.

Action Step:
Determine a comfortable buffer amount (e.g., $500) and gradually build it up by allocating a portion of your income each month.

8. KEEP YOUR CREDIT IN GOOD STANDING

Maintaining a good credit score is crucial, even when you’re working to pay off debt. In the event of a financial emergency, having access to credit can provide a temporary solution without resorting to high-interest loans.

Action Step:
Regularly check your credit report for errors and keep credit card balances low. Make all payments on time, even if it’s just the minimum amount.

9. EMBRACE THE POWER OF NEGOTIATION

Unexpected expenses can often be negotiated or spread out. Medical bills, for instance, are notorious for being negotiable. Don’t hesitate to ask for a payment plan, a reduction in interest rates, or even a discount.

Action Step:
If faced with a large, unexpected bill, contact the service provider and enquire about payment options, discounts, or financial assistance programs.

10. FOSTER A RESILIENT MINDSET

Building financial resilience isn’t just about money—it’s also about mindset. Understand that setbacks are a part of life, and maintaining a positive outlook will help you navigate them more effectively.

Action Step:
Practice stress-management techniques such as mindfulness, meditation, or journaling. Develop a routine that helps you stay focused and calm during financial challenges.

11. BUILD A SUPPORT NETWORK

Having a support network of friends, family, or a financial advisor can provide emotional and practical support during challenging times. Surround yourself with people who understand your goals and can offer advice or encouragement.

Action Step:
Identify three people who can be part of your financial support network. Share your goals with them and ask for their support in staying accountable. 

12. PLAN FOR FUTURE SETBACKS

While it’s impossible to predict every setback, planning for potential scenarios can make them less overwhelming. Think about what could go wrong in your financial journey and devise strategies to deal with them.

Action Step:
Conduct a “financial fire drill.” Write down potential setbacks (e.g., job loss, major car repair) and create a response plan for each scenario.

13. REGULARLY REVIEW AND ADJUST YOUR FINANCIAL PLAN

Your financial situation and priorities can change over time. Regularly reviewing and adjusting your debt repayment plan ensures you stay on track and adapt to new circumstances.

Action Step:
Set a reminder to review your financial plan every quarter. Adjust your budget, debt repayment, and savings strategies based on your current situation.

CONCLUSION

Setbacks are inevitable on the path to becoming debt-free, but with the right preparation, they don’t have to derail your progress. By building financial resilience through strategic planning, conscious spending, and a positive mindset, you can bounce back stronger from any challenge. Remember, becoming debt-free is not a sprint; it’s a marathon. Stay focused, stay prepared, and keep moving forward. 

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