We all have a money story. It’s the narrative we’ve built over time based on our experiences, upbringing, and beliefs about money. Some of us grew up hearing, “Money doesn’t grow on trees,” while others were told, “You have to work hard for every penny.” These messages, whether spoken or unspoken, shape how we interact with money as adults.

But what if your money story is holding you back? What if deep down, you believe you’re not capable of financial success or that you’re destined to struggle? The good news is that your money story isn’t set in stone. You have the power to rewrite it.

Here’s how to break free from limiting beliefs and create a financial narrative that empowers you.

STEP 1: KNOW YOUR NUMBERS

Before you can change your money story, you need to understand what it is. Ask yourself:

- What did I hear about money growing up?
- How did my parents or caregivers handle money?
- What emotions come up when I think about my finances?
- Do I believe money is a source of stress, power, freedom, or something else?

Write down the recurring patterns you’ve noticed in your financial life. Have you always lived paycheck to paycheck, even when you earn more? Do you sabotage financial success out of guilt or fear? Awareness is the first step to transformation.

What did you hear about money growing up?

STEP 2: CHALLENGE THE BELIEFS THAT NO LONGER SERVE YOU

Many of our money beliefs were inherited, not chosen. But just because you grew up with certain financial patterns doesn’t mean you have to continue them.

Take a belief like, “I’m just bad with money.” Ask yourself: Is this actually true? Or have I just made mistakes in the past that I can learn from? Reframe it: “I am learning how to manage my money in a way that aligns with my goals.”

Your beliefs create your reality. If you constantly tell yourself you’ll never be wealthy, your actions will reflect that. Instead, adopt empowering beliefs like:

- “I am capable of building wealth.”
- “Money is a tool that supports my dreams.”
- “I deserve financial abundance.”

STEP 3: REWRITE YOUR MONEY STORY

Now it’s time to create a new money story, one that aligns with your goals and values. Imagine your ideal financial future. What does it look like? How do you feel about money? How do you handle it?

Write down your new story as if it’s already true. For example: “I am financially confident. I make smart decisions with my money, and I attract opportunities for abundance. I feel secure, knowing that I am in control of my finances. Money flows to me easily, and I use it to create a fulfilling life.”

The more you affirm this new story, the more your subconscious mind starts to accept it as reality.

Take Actions That Support Your New Money Story

STEP 4: ELIMINATE DEBT STRATEGICALLY

Your environment shapes your mindset. If you’re constantly hearing negative messages about money, it’s harder to shift your beliefs. Seek out people, books, and resources that reinforce your new money story.

This is why I created my Monthly Coaching program, where you can access THE VAULT – a collection of financial courses, tools, and community support designed to help you step into financial empowerment. And if you’re ready for a full financial transformation, the Master Your Money program will guide you through everything you need to break free from financial limitations.

Ready to Master Your Money?

Your financial future isn’t dictated by your past. You have the power to rewrite your money story and create a new reality – one where you feel confident, in control, and financially free.

The question is: What story will you choose to tell yourself from today onward?

The pen is in your hands.